Tone down the sass

Here's the deal, yesterday I found out I am pregnant. I have my first appointment next Wednesday and just from talking to a phone nurse she says I'm around 9 weeks. I've had a few people make some rude comments on "how I didn't know I was pregnant for so long". Well to start I am used to having irregular periods, I have had ZERO symptoms until this past week, my breasts were hurting but I thought Mother Nature was on its way but that lasted too many days from what I was used to so I finally took a test. This was also a surprise pregnancy so I wasn't thinking of even taking a test, just thought it was the normal super late or missed month for me. Some of you need to be a lot kinder to women on here! Part of my frustration may be due to hormones but none the less have some respect.