Female/Mom Army Reserve

Yesenia
Hello everyone,
I know this app is about periods, TTC/Not TTC but I just didn't know where I could ask many woman about a female/mom perspective on the army reserve.
I have until Wednesday to decide on weather I will be joining or not.
I am not a mom yet, but in a couple of years I do plan to have a baby and I want to know if it would be stressful.
Did this play a role in your relationship? 
At this point in time, would it be a good choice to join?
What was the good and bad?
Would you recommend a loved one to join? 
Any comments would be greatly appreciated!
Thank you.