My mum

Paula • 30 y/o, student at Bowie state university studying criminal justice . Due w10/09/2016 with my first now pregnant with my second 10/21/2021
I have known my boyfriend for 6months and I am pregnant by him my tradition says if you are pregnant you should try doing the marriage rites before the baby is born !! The problem is my mum keeps saying we havent known each other for long and that we should know  better but time doesn't really permit it to happen like that . My boyfriend is In Africa and plans to come here soon everyone from his side supports us . But it looks like my mum isn't really in support she keeps bringing up different excuses as to why we shouldn't get married or have our child but we have made up our mind that we want our bundle  of blessing . I understand that she is worried about me being that I have four more semesters to finish university but why does it feel like she wants me to have an abortion which I strongly refuse . I just don't understand her point of view