I notice when someone posts a question or situation on something most people have no real good thoughts or opinions on the original posters actual problem. They pertain it to themselves and if they don't see it a problem, original poster is the idiot for feeling or thinking the way they do. Most never consider the problem as someone else's problem or feelings and just try to help. They judge, state THERE feelings as to why OP is wrong in there stance, and are always just nasty and mean while doing it! There's so little constructive criticism in this community it's depressing. I'm sure I'm probably the only one with this opinion, and I'm sure I will also get judged and attacked over this. But, still, had to get it off my back.