Am I crazy?!

So, this weekend has been eventful for baby and I. We had her out Friday night and Saturday night. Saturday I was by myself all day because my husband was re-doing the plumbing in our bathroom. Since this was going on in our house, I had to leave and go to my moms house because he had to turn the water off. I was at my moms alone because she is away.  I have been trying to keep my Peanut on a set schedule each night and it has been working. Since we were out Friday and Saturday night, the schedule was thrown off a bit. Since we were at my moms, the baby didn't nap at all throughout the day. Well, good naps anyway. She would fall asleep for 10 minutes and then wake up. I had a dinner party at a co-workers house that I drug her to and she was so tired so I left early. I fed her around 8 when I got home and she passed out. However, when I put her down, she woke right up crying. After, soothing her on and off for about 2 hours, I finally caved and just held her on my chest and she fell right asleep. At this point, my husband left me alone again to go to his friends house to watch a fight. I texted him around 10 saying the baby wasn't sleeping and just sharing with him my frustration, in which I got no response. I texted at 11, saying I was going to need him to watch her in the morning so I could pump and shower as I have a child's birthday party to go to (which I am also bringing the baby to). He responds by saying "I cleaned the stove and behind the oven" and I said " ok, what does that have to do with anything I just said" and he says "I get to sleep in tomorrow if I'm not feeling good without you busting my balls. Once the bathroom if finished, you'll thank me" I said "are you serious?" Then he responds "what is the problem". At this point I am livid. Does he want an award for cleaning the stove? After everything I do, every single day. I never ask for recognition, or credit. I do it because it has to get done. The laundry, making meals, cleaning the house.. So he finally comes stumbling in at 1:30, and of course feels the need to wake me up by shining his cell phone light in my face. And I politely say "could you please not do that, I am trying to sleep." He says "was she having trouble falling asleep" I say "yes, I texted you and told you that hours ago" and he says "ok, you don't have to be a bitch about it" I ignore him and continue to try and sleep. Then he proceeds to attempt to have sex with me, as the baby is laying on my chest. I say "now is not the time for that." He says all mad "of course it isn't the time, when is the time, when it's convenient for you? It hasn't been the time for the past 5 months." And then he storms off and goes to sleep downstairs. Am I the crazy one here? No, we haven't had sex in quite some time, however, of ALL times to chose to try and rekindle, you wait until now. Why not every other night when our baby is sound asleep for the entire night and we are up spending time together. Sorry for the rant.. I just feel like he purposely tried that tonight because he knew I was going to say no (for obvious reasons) and he just wanted to start a fight and get mad at me for something to take the attention off the fact that he came home drunk and has been absent all weekend so far.