Would you be mad???

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So I just had a baby 2months ago. Yesterday my husband was in the shower. His friend called and I took it upon myself to look at his pictures. Well he had an extra folder called thechive. With slutty girls. So I looked it up and it's a website "hot women", "hot college girls " etc. I wasn't happy. I obviously confronted him. He basically told me he didn't have time to argue and he had to go to work.

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Oh boy the chive caused some problems in my relationship early on. Where I live in California the chive is huge.. but mainly it's a big deal for sluts to share their nasty pics.. my husband used to use the app and be part of Facebook pages until I looked on them and it was 99% half naked whores I was like nope, you're done with that. Lol.

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girl, get some pics of ur own. i chk out hot men pics my friends send.  my husband saw them on my phone n ask y i have these. i said same reason y u got girl pics. he walked out room n said nothing else about the pics. women are sexual beings too. quit letting men have all the fun girls it is 2016. let ur SO see this n then tell him to go f*** himself. demand some equality in ur relationship

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it's a website, often cute and funny, not only about girls. one of my favorites, actually. but it is strange that he would keep those pics in a special folder in his phone

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Idk anything about this website, but if it's not a site to chat or communicate in any way with the people who post the pics, I wouldn't be worried. Like porn. If porn upsets you, I suppose this would also. But it's human nature for a man to be visually stimulated. Does it mean he's not attracted to you? No. Does it mean he doesn't love you? No. Personally, I'd just say it bothered me and ask him not to use that site again and delete the pics. No argument, no fight, end of discussion

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You should look up "The Berry" it's the opposite version of The Chive. The Berry has pics of hot guys and all kinds of cool girly stuff.

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I'd be livid.

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I am so uptight about this stuff. I honestly breakdown in either tears or anger when I find that crap. It is all over my husbands phone and tablet. I don't know how my hubby would survive without all his fucking porn and shit. Since I realised it was there, our sex life has died. And because of him always jacking off he can't finish sometimes. I have suffered sexual abuse so I am completely turned off by things that should turn me on and I feel completely degraded and ashamed when I find this stuff. But because I cannot sexually commit to him it makes me realize I am getting what I deserve. I need counciling for this. I never intended to get so worked up over this post. 😢

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At least it's random girls, not girls he works with or knows.   It's like porn.  He's looking,  not touching (other then himself). No worries! ! There men,  they'll look.

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if you think you're the only woman your partner will find attractive, then yes, you need counceling.

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The Chive is a very popular website. YES they have girls who send in half naked pictures but there's a lot more than that. I'm super uptight about porn and stuff for my hubs but the Chive doesn't bother me at all.

Would you be mad???

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