Feeling hopeless

I want to get married like really soon but my fiance hasn't gotten his divorce yet. After the baby is born is is going to finish it. He will have a month off for binding time. I know that when this happens that we won't get married for a long time. He makes more and I don't work so if we do get married I won't have Healthcare cause he makes to much and has major bills to pay for. He wants to go back to school next October and it's going to take him six years to finish. I feel so hopeless.