Why are men so insensitive?

Question

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and I can sense that he's changed a lot. He's always too busy to see me. His reason is that he's too busy with his studies. But always makes time for his friends. I hate him. I just wish its easy to unlove someone. He thinks I'm being overreacting and too shallow.  I kept on telling him my side, and he would always tell me that he'll change for me. But always fails to. What should I do? Should I break up with him? He would always scare me that I wont find another man like him who loves me more than anyone else in this world. Am I really being too overreacting?

Answer

So many ways to answer this question. Aha. Going into college, I struggled with the same issue. Yes, doing well in school is important for your future, but if he's making more time for his friends than for you..iono. My boyfriend did the same thing and it tore me apart because I felt like he didn't even prioritize our relationship. After so many conversations, arguments, and even heartbreaks, we were able to overcome this. It went up to the point where we almost broke up, and that was when I realized that I didn't wanna lose him. I'm not saying to break up with him, but just keep trying to talk to him. Don't ask him to change cause if you're trying to change someone, you don't love them for who they really are. Just ask him to give you more of his time, or you can study together or get to know his friends so you guys can all hang out. I know it might not be the ideal way to spend time together, but being with him should be enough, right? If all else fails, it's really up to you, and how much you really want to be him. Good luck to you, and I wish you the best :)

Answer

People never change ✌🏻️

Why are men so insensitive?

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