Mil help:(
So I'm the one that always posts about the mother in law not knowing what to do about it. She's the one that shit my mom out of throwing a huge baby shower, her work threw her a shower for my pregnancy and she got the convertible car seat I wanted even though she won't be driving my son around because she abuses her pills, the one that stumbles around and spills things everywhere, drove her car into a ditch, you name it. I'm trying to keep this short so I'll get more feedback. Long story short, I have been living with her. I'm now 40 weeks pregnant, baby is coming any day now. So yesterday she asked me if the baby's initials were still going to be the same, because she wants to have a wreath made for the hospital door when we go. The thing is, we don't know if we are going to have visitors or not and we definitely didn't want her there not knowing if she would show up high or drunk. We have never had a baby before so we don't even know if anyone will be visiting. So I answered her very politely, told her his initials, and I told her it was totally up to her to have it made and in the case that we didn't have visitors we would still keep it as a keepsake. I told her I really appreciated her thinking of us. I was very nice, I swear. So my SO gets home from work telling me they got in an argument, and let me read it. The gist of it was her saying she was upset about not being able to be at the hospital, and thinking that we disrespected her by moving the dog inside her house (the dog was gone from the garage so she automatically assumed we snuck her inside, in all reality she's at my moms house because we don't trust MIL to watch her while I have baby), so my SO straight up told her why we don't want her at the hospital and she got mad and said we need to find another place to live. Thankfully we had already been doing so because her home is not safe for us. But I find it VERY inconsiderate and terrible for her to be springing this on us when I could go into labor at any minute. I just need some support, I really do. I need advice, PLEASE
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