Between Guys...

Okay, so I'm between guys right now and kind of talking to two different ones. One is way older than me, is obsessed with working out and counting calories, and is looking for the perfect wife (soooo not ready for that). The other is a year ahead of me, in college, but doesn't normally date anyone and hard to read. The first one is kind of pushing me to go work out and watch my weight and stuff but the second just kind of supports whatever. I'm not sure.... What guy I really want to be with 😫 please help!