So my boyfriend's birthday is on Monday and even though I hate anal I know he likes it. Like a lot. I know I don't have to do it but unfortunately I lost my job right after Christmas so I don't have the money to spoil him the way I would like. So I figured why not give him the one thing he wants that I've never fully given him. Does anyone have any tips to make this nor the most miserable experience of my life? I know I don't have to do it but I want to do it for him. Or maybe if anyone just had some tips to do something else. I'm pretty open minded I just want to make him happy.