I know I'm not a dad, and this isn't my room to join but I would like a man's point of view please...

Okay place yourself in these shoes.

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You have been with somebody for 3 years, asked her to marry you within the first year because you were just head over heels. You are following your dream going to school to reach that goal. After multiple miscarriages you are finally having your little girl in a little over a month. . . but things have changed. You live together now, you quit your job because you worked back breaking hours for minimum wage plus school, and working at the firehouse (because your a firemen training to be a emt). Your stressed out, you just wanna be a guy again and live your life like a normal guy does. You break down and tell the girl who loves you more than life itself that you had been thinking about breaking up.... She's trying so hard to keep it together, keep you guys together , keep your family together in order for you to make it as a family for your unborn baby. . .

Help me understand from a guys point of view.... Do I let go? Do I push more? So I try something? This baby deserves her family being together, she doesn't deserve a broken family before she's even apart of it.