Baby shower

My friends mom is throwing me a baby shower & im so grateful that she's doing so, but the way she's explaining how some things are going to go just really makes me not want to have one because it sounds really ghetto & lame. I know so many people who have awesome baby showers & I feel embarrassed of mine & I haven't even had it yet. They won't let me plan it because apparently I'm not suppose to but I REALLLLY feel like I need to. They're just half assing everything about it & I just don't want it anymore. & she's putting her kids in charge of certain things like the games & the food. Like NO! You cannot have your children do my baby shower that just doesn't make sense, sounds like a total disaster. I'm not even going to have a cake & probably won't have party favors or a dessert table like I want. I'm just really upset & need to get this off my chest. Even my invitations were lame. They don't even go with my theme! Maybe it's the hormones, I'm not sure. I just want to cry & not even show up to it.