Currently miscarrying

We found out Monday (11 weeks) that our baby's heart stopped at 9 weeks. I started spotting and decided to let it happen naturally but now it's been 5 days and not much is happening. I'm debating on just going for the d&c so I can be done with this :( no decision is an easy one. My hubby and I discussed trying again and I just don't know yet how I feel. Is there anyone that didn't decide to try again right away?