Cheating? Yes or no?

Question

So a few days ago I saw on my bed phone him texting his friend about how he is "either going to cheat on me and leave or upgrade and leave"... We got into huge fight BF he basically said how it was just a figure of speech and he's just upset about something that happened. I let it go because I thought to myself.. It couldve been a convo with him and his boy.
But yesterday AGAIN I saw on his phone him talking to that same friend talking about how the Sweeden girls they met on the mall were so hot and how ge wishes they could've stayed longer to be with them. He als said things like how his friend got a Sweeden girl but not him and he was "sad" about it. Also said how fun it would be to fuck them because there lips were "juicy" and ass was "fat"

His response to me was basically "he was being a wing man for his friend"

What would you girls do in a situation like this.. If you saw your man talking to like this to his friends...

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I have a husband - been in a successful relationship for 7 years without ever breaking up or anything. 
Checking out girls? That's ok.
Saying a girl has an attractive feature? That's okay.
Saying it would be "fun" to FUCK one?? NOT ok.
Texting friends about pretty girls they saw? That's okay.
Saying he is sad that he could not be with them longer?? NOT ok.
Considering cheating on me or upgrading??? DONE. 
Your man sounds like an asshole and I don't know why you didn't break up with him the first time you saw those texts about either breaking up with you "upgrading" or cheating. Who the fuck does that?? I promise he doesn't love you, and I'd be surprised if he even cared about you. You deserve better hun.

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Leave, when he asks why say you're upgrading 😌

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Just leave, like why even question it? He's a cunt

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Leave. No excuses. No what ifs. Nothing, done! Don't let him treat you like shit.

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Seriously? Girl, you deserve better! I would leave and find someone who treats you like the queen you are.

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Well I know my partner talks to his friends about how hot girls are when they're out in public but he also talks to me like that so t doesn't bother me. I'd be pissed about the cheating or upgrading thing though. That I couldn't let slide. Talking about girls and how hot they are is boy talk. Talking about cheating is asshole talk. Regardless of how mad I've made my SO there's no way that he would ever say something like that. Bc if he felt the need to leave he would do it. Not talk about it and chest behind my back.

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You deserve better why are you still with him? He is definitely not worth you time!

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Ill have my guard up I wouldn't even let him know I knew what was said

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