My husband and I are due in October with our first. We cannot seem to agree on whether or not to find out the babys gender. I do not want to know, I really want that surprise in the delivery room for my first child, not to mention we are planning to have more and would prefer gender neutral stuff. My husband insists that he cant wait that long, that he HAS to find out!! I dont hve a problem with him knowing and me not, except i dont trust him to not accidentally slip up and reveal it to me. We arent going to tell anyone the gender anyways, no matter what we decide, but he will not budge or try to see my point. I'm not sure what to do, i really want to wait and i will be devistated if he accidentally tells me, but if i cant convince him to wait with me what other options do we have? Any adivce or similar situations?!