He wants me to abort 😰😢

I been dating this guy for some months now. He seemed like such a great guy. We BOTH knew what we were doing when having unprotected sex! I already have a child she's 6. Her dad passed when I was pregnant in a car accident. I haven't been pregnant since that. He has no children and he's in the army. He knows about my daughter dad death and seemed sincere. I really felt comfortable telling him I was pregnant because the impression he has given me! Well he tells me to get rid of it! I don't believe in abortion especially when WE knew what we were doing. He's stationed in another state but it's 3 hours away. I want him to be involved and to care but I don't think I'm going to get that. I'm crushed and it gets even worse..I never met his family! I know I was stupid for this but I just can't see myself aborting the baby. I don't want to do it and I don't want to lose him but am I wrong or selfish to think about myself at this time? I'll always keep the door open for him to be in the baby life I just can't see myself going to a freaking clinic for my decision resulting in unprotected sex. Should I try to call him? Or just leave him alone as I move forward?