ORGASM- Weird way

Ashley
Okay, I don't know if this is weird but I literally can't orgasm unless I hold my breathe or lock my knees/ tighten my leg muscles. It's so weird and probably not healthy and I sometimes get foot cramps because of it- especially in bed with my boyfriend- but I just can't do it unless that happens. Is anyone else as weird as I am !? 😂😭