Questions!! Kinda tmi!!

Ok so we'll just get the gross question outta the way!!

I have these two zit things on my lady lips and I can get stuff out of them, it's white, comes out in squggles, and doesnt stink. Just curious if this is a normal occurance or what? I've had them for about two years and they just wont go away. They dont hurt, they are just there and filled with whatever!! How can i get rid of them? What are they called? should i be conserned? Could this be apart of why its so hard to conceive? I've had one baby but i mc her at 5 months. Ive had my annual check down there a few months back and the doc didnt say anything?

Now for the other one that is kinda confusing!

When I got pregnant with my first that i mc last May, my SO and I were on a break for 22 days in Dec of 2014, we got back together a week excactly after my period and were goin like bunnies that night. Soo now my period just ended and I'm wondering if maybe waiting a week is the key? We havent had sex the whole time i was on my period, so i still want to try and experiment with the waiting a week thing and trying not to focus on ttc.

Has anyone done this before with positive results in the end?

Thanls for the help ladies!!!