Bisexual??

Question

I am really scared, I have always liked boys, but there's this one girl I believe I fell in love with and I can't stop thinking about her. I've never been interested in girls more than friends and I just don't know, I don't see any other girl but her as attractive, but I also really like a boy but he's my bff and I hope more. I know you'll say I'm bisexual but I'm really struggling with the fact that I like a woman, it's all new and being 16 I find it really confusing.

Answer

It's okay you're still figuring it out. Sexuality can take a while to understand and that's why people "experiment". Everything will be okay. Pansexual is when you love people and gender doesn't matter maybe that is a consideration? Yes either way accept and embrace any way you are feeling.

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Just don't label it. Sexuality is so fluid and unique to each person, and we all lie somewhere on a spectrum. You don't need to say "I'm bisexual" or anything. Just follow your heart and accept that we can change and adapt and fluctuate, and so can our sexualities.

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There doesn't have to be a label if you don't want one. I've heard of people still considering themselves as straight even though they fell in love with one person of the same sex and aren't generally attracted to the same sex except that one person. Sexuality is a very broad spectrum. Whatever hat fits you is okay, or none at all. 😊

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First, take a deep breath. Everything is going to be fine. Hi! I'm Sylvia. I'm 17. I've spent the past 2 years figuring out, understanding, and embracing my bisexuality. I know what you're going through. 
Now, there are a couple things that might help you to know. 
-Sexuality is very fluid. Right now you might be mostly attracted to guys and in a few years that might change. That's ok. 
-Bisexual is a really broad term and it can encompass a lot. Anything from being mostly attracted to one sex and occasionally the other to being completely split half and half (look up the Kinsley scale if you aren't sure about this). You can be bisexual and only date guys while occasionally being into girls or vise versa. You could also call yourself bi-curious, pansexual (not recommend in your case just yet), queer, or even straight-ish if you're so inclined. 
You also don't have to call yourself anything until you're fully comfortable with it. Since you do like guys for the most part and people automatically assume other people are straight, you don't need to confess your lack of straightness to anyone unless you choose to act on your feelings for the girl. I personally don't recommend this, but you should do whatever feels most comfortable to you. 
Sexuality is a very personal thing. If you choose to label yourself, go with what makes you feel most comfortable. Information always helps me so I did as much research as I could about sexualities and identity. Even if you choose to identify as straight, it's always good to be informed. 
You're not the first one to go through this. 
If you have any questions, feel free to ask!

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