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Is anyone else doing this? Im q ftm and dont really want to deal with the social graces that come with having visitors in the hospital (call me selfish) the whole idea of letting a bunch of people hold my baby makes me feel a little uncomfortable and a little powerless plus people tend to show up unannounced and its rude to tell them to go away and i dont want people sticking around... it just gives me anxiety thinking about it i want to show her off when she doesnt look like a rasin and i dont feel like death lol am i wrong?