Im so torn

I don't know what to do. I have a severe umbilical hernia that has been causing some intense pain that's more frequent and worse bigger I get. I'm 20 weeks. Im seeing a new doctor for first time Wednesday. I don't want to lie to my doctor on Wednesday and tell them I'm experiencing mild pain cause although sometimes it is mild 75% of the time its severe. But I also don't want to tell her how bad it is cause I dont want her to take me off work which is a high possibility. :( idk what to do and my hubby keeps saying its up to me. I just want to cry :(