Subchorionic hemorrhage!!???

I was diagnosed at 5w6d with a very large SCH. I am now 12w4d and still have it. It's all squished around now because baby is growing and pushing it in different directions. Baby is doing very well, but I am still "not out of the woods" and that is scary. I am afraid the pregnancy will pull away, which is the worry ...I just wish it would disappear. We had a miscarriage this past fall and so have told NO ONE except our doctor, because we cannot stand to see our older children hurt again from the loss of another sibling.

Any experience with this or advice??? It is terrible to go through being labeled a threatened miscarriage after a loss and I haven't connected with the baby because of all of this. :( Thank you for listening ♡