Daycare assistance

My mom wants me to get daycare assistance so that when she "babysits" my 7 month old she'll get paid. But the thing is.. My so and my grandmother always watch him. Neither of them ask for money. They BOTH offer. 
So instead of getting a real job, my mom would rather get paid by the government to sit on her ass and half assed watch my son. 
She's been bringing it up every single time. She says "I'll get paid as much as you do" 
Um????