Tall overweight and ttc

Desiree • I'm a stay at home mom of four, and currently trying for a brother my eldest son who is 9.im a married women of three years, and I have three beautiful daughters.
I'm 5'9" and 280 if that and I'm 9 days late and took a test yesterday and it was negative and I got shamed and my bestie told me to not think about it and maybe I tested too soon... She's my rock between her and my husband... So Im going to try my hardest to not think about it.