Difficult decision

I need advice...please don't judge. I'm torn between 3 guys. One is a really good friend of mine, kinda a friends with benefits thing but he wants to take things to the next step. I just don't know if I see him in that way. The second guy is a man I've been in love with for months. We've recently come back into contact, but there are so many people against us being together. And the third guy is someone I just met at my church. Hes a total sweetheart!

They all offer me something, but I just don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt any of them because they are all great ...advice ladies?