Im on my first baby and found out im gonna be having three showers... My babys god mother is throwing one here in colorado for friends and any family here, then in may/june we are going to Illinois to see family ans check on my grandfather and they now wanna do one there, and the church i have been going to for years is gonna be throwing a little one for me in june/before babys here.... I feel like that is way too much but dont know how to say no.... I have never been the type to have it all about me so i wasnt expecting that many baby showers for one baby.....