Is anyone's BF/Husband not wanting to have relations during your pregnancy?

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I'm 7 months and we have gone almost over a month without sex. I want it but he doesn't.

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Ugh my husband pretty much the entire pregnancy. He's weirded out that "there's a baby on the premises" and can't get into it. I can count the number if times we've had sex this pregnancy on my fingers. Major change from our usual sex life.

It didn't help that early on I had an irritable cervix that bled a LOT after sex, which freaked us both out and really killed the mood. I say had because it's been since January (when we had an early labor scare), so I have no idea what it does now.  -_-

We didn't anticipate this being a problem, but it's really giving me pause about having another kid! He's attentive and supportive in every other way, but this majorly sucks. I made him talk to the doctor so he understood he couldn't hurt the baby, and the baby wasn't aware that we were sing the deed, but he still has that mentality.

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I just posted a comment about the same thing.  I'm in the same boat as you.

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My husband is afraid of going too deep so we have been doing a lot of mutual masturbation and oral and outside the vagina play.

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Oddly enough, I'm the one that doesn't want anything to do with sex. It's been so long I'm starting to feel bad for him...but I have absolutely no desire to do anything when I'm feeling fat & pregnant.

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It's been 3 months for us!! He says we won't be having sex until a few months after our little man arrives! Makes me feel so insecure about the way i look! I want it all the time and he won't give me the time of day! I asked why he doesn't want to and he still has yet to give me a reason! So frustrating, I miss him emotionally and he's not there for me!! I guess my big belly is not sexually appealing to him!!

Is anyone's BF/Husband not wanting to have relations during your pregnancy?

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