So since I found out I was expecting, I wanted to do a more personal reveal with friends and family rather than find out in the doctors office. My fiance and I have it planned out to do a cake with the inside pink or blue. The only problem is I think my fiance will be very obviously disappointed if baby is a little girl. I also want a boy, but I know I will adjust eventually. My fear is that he will be upset about it with friends and family around and that it will effect the overall mood..

Should we find out first so he has time to adjust and then do cake for everyone else? 🎀🎈