Second chances!

Allow me to elaborate. I see many women on here who believe due to marriage or love or whatever. That there SO derserves a second chance when he/she cheats, abuses them, does drugs, etc. To me no one "deserves" a second chance you earn it or are gifted with one but when someone screws up do they honestly think they deserve a second chance to screw things up again?

So the question.....

Do people believe they "deserve" a second chance or are "gifted" with a second chance?