Is it weird that we don't have sex all the time?

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My husband and I have sex (amazing sex) but we only have sex like 3-5 times a month. I don't tell anyone about this, but my family pokes fun about how we're in the "newlyweds" stage and about how we much be breaking beds.

The sex is great and we're both satisfied, so I know it's okay... But it seems like we're odd because we're not just wanting to jump on each other all the time. People seem to assume we do since we're attached at the hip and always affectionate and snuggly. And I can't stop feeling like we're maybe doing something wrong?

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We're the same as well! Exactly like you 3-5 times a month. We are very much in love and the sex (when we do have it) is rocking!

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Omg I thought I was the only one....but I do wish it was a little more. The only reason why I'm getting it that much is cuz we're TTC. I miss having it as often as we did when we first got together!

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3-5 times a month is nothing to be ashamed of. You have a life things come first before sex. It's just how things are. Wait till you get super duper busy we got five kids work ect it's once every couple months 😫 but a relationship isn't just based on sex it's love

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If that's all you need to be satisfied then it doesn't matter what anyone else says or things. For my relationship that would be weird but every relationship is different and has their own way of working. You do you.

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If you know it's OK then you have nothing to worry. Every relationship is diffrent. If your both happy and satisfied then ignore what others assume.

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We are the same way, we are just sooooo tired after work and work a lot of opposite shifts. We used to have sex everyday in the beginning sometimes twice lol. We make sure to have sex during my ovulation time now that we are TTC bit outside of that time we will go 1 or 2 weeks without it. Life happens. If you're worried talk to him about it. :)

Is it weird that we don't have sex all the time?

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