My MIL is at it again.

We recently announced to my mil we were pregnant again thinking she would be excited, but that was not the reaction we got. The first thing she said was,

"ohhhh don't tell me that if you aren't out of the first trimester, I can't bear getting my heart broke again!"

Me and my husband had a miscarriage last year that she didn't even know about until after it happened. So her acting like we told her as soon as we found out about the last pregnancy annoyed the piss outta me. Also I can guarantee, my heartbreak was WAY worse than the heartbreak she felt, if she even did, but that wasn't even the end of her negativity. She then brought up I just lost my job. I am on unemployment making almost what I did before I lost my job and am looking for another job, so that isn't a big deal.

Just the fact that she never said congratulations or seemed excited is enough to annoy anyone, but the complete negative connotation about another baby made it worse.

Now I have to go to her house this weekend for a birthday party she is having for me and two other family members. It may sound like a nice gesture, but I assure you she is just using it as an excuse to see my daughter and niece. She even called my husband crying about how they had to stay the night so she could spend more time with my daughter... But then told my husband I could stay at my FIL's house...wtf! I am 14weeks pregnant and I'm not dealing with her bull!