The opposite of symptom spotting

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Has anyone swung from being a symptom spotter to a symptom dismisser?
I think I have.
Last cycle was our first 'let's see what happens' cycle. I was all hopeful and having vivid dreams and spotting symptoms, fighting urges to test etc. Then my period came.
This cycle, I'm in the mindset of unlikeliness. Telling myself we didn't make love frequently enough (I was away mid-cycle), only days 8 & 14. Lacking any significant signs, ignoring them or playing them down. I'm highly focussed on other things.
I'm feeling a bit relieved actually, as last cycle I understood how easy it is to get high hopes & feel obsessive. Feel more relaxed now.
The mind & heart amaze me :) I'm keen to hear about others' experiences.