Need a buddy

37 and trying to conceive. I  had an Iud for 12 years in which time I never had a menstrual cycle. Turns out Ididn't  miss Aunt Flo at all while she was gone. 😂. The first two periods I had were so brutal, my doctor said its my body trying to get back on track. They aren't regular yet either. Last month I was a week late and went thru so many tests. Hoping for some good news soon...been trying for almost 3 months now.