I'm due on July 6th and I just found out my ex husband wants his uninterrupted 2 week parent time July 4th- 17th. we have been working on getting along and doing what is best for the kids. But I am torn I want my older kids to be there to bond with baby. But I also don't want them to be board because all we will do is sit home and their dad has plans to have fun. Any suggestions?