Why would you EVER call a pregnant woman fat? When is that EVER ok?

Im 34+1 and yes i am fat! My pants don't fit, my shirts dont fit, my bras and panties are to tight, i cant wear my wedding ring or my boots and hell my jackets wont even zip!! So what i bought little debbie swiss rolls so i could have ONE!! Maybe im just tired today if fighting the craving and gave in this ONE day! Ice only gained 24 pounds compared to 56 with my first and 48 with my second. My husband called me fat for the first time because he saw the swiss rolls. And then my sister n law proceeds to tell my 3 year old nephew how fat i am and to call me fatty while hubby just sits there and plays temple run. Im so over all of this!