Waiting games...

My hubby and I have been TTC for 3 years..I'm only almost 21 and he is 25...we both got tested and he has only about 20,000 sperms (normal is about 50,000) and they aren't good swimmers..I've done so much research and found this product called Stork OTC (It's an at home insemination kit..$80 at CVS) so I got one and we used it this moth...now just playing the impatiently waiting game...I've taken 3 tests so far and all have been a BFN..I'm honestly starting to lose hope...and it doesn't help that both our families always ask why we don't have one yet or when we are gonna get on it!