Don't be rude need help please vote or comment

Just got married please don't be rude but me and my husband just got married and I love him and we doing OK we staying with he's family OK so he say we should get a car first but i think a house and I see the reason why we need the car but his people have said they would help us back and fourth now I have to jobs and he have a full time job now so I think we should still go for the place to stay first. What do y'all think please don't be a rude person..