Baby #3, want to try bottlefeeding

Mo • Fl gal. Military spouse. 👫06 💍08 💖12 💙13 ❓16 - Baby # 3!
With my first we tried to give her a bottle, but she was so offended. With my second, only took a bottle twice, but it couldn't be from my husband (def not me, the milk source). Now I am expecting our third! And would like to relieve myself of some feeding. Does anyone have any bottle rec for breastfeeding babies, pump rec (I have had not the best time with my ameda purely yours pump, I got it because it's one of the most sanitary pumps, but it hurts and it doesn't get a lot of milk after my milk settles - which could be me?), and if anyone has any tips for introducing bottles while wanting to nurse (majority of the time), also tips for pumping! Maybe I dont produce enough to nurse and pump? Sorry for the long winded post. Imma a detailed rambler.
Lasty, I nurse full term - 2yrs with both and will with my next, when is a good time to stop with bottle feeding? I was thinking at a year when feedings are less.