RANT and Annoyed 😏😫

So these past couple days have been stressful and annoying.... First off my mom got mad because i didnt stick with a boy name that had both my uncles names who passed away and she wanted me to name them to show some sort of respect. Then i said i didnt want a baby shower because my husband thinks its just money thrown away and i get it because ppl dont even bring presents or anything just come and eat and drink... And we can use the baby shower money to actually buy stuff for the baby. Then lastly im 25 and this is baby #3 ive been with my husband since 2008 and hes an excellent dad and husband. 3rd baby came as a surprise as i had just taken out my IUD a couple days  before having unprotected sex i thought it was gonna take some time for my hormones to start working and getting ready again 😏 i know i know unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy but with my other two it took some months after taking it off.. But my mom says u should get ur tubes tied or put something so u dont keep having kids 😑 my oldest is 6 and my son is 4 so i think their ages are perfect for a third baby but she decides to fet upset and always tells me stuff about having 3  kids at 25 which i dont even understand why when she had me and my siblings at the same age and at the same age gaps -_- then today i decide to change my hair color a bit and dyed it red and she freaked out saying that im a mother already with 3 kids and shouldnt be doing that anymore... I just cant take it anymore! Sometimes i just dont even want to speak to her and stop going to her house to visit cause there is always something negative for her to say.