How do I tell him to do more?

Samantha
I'm a stay at home mom and my husband works. Sometimes he works overtime sometimes not. Lately we have all been sick with a cold. It's been 3 weeks and he has done nothing but go to work, eat dinner then go to bed. A few times he has gone out to have a beer after work. He has not offered to cook clean or even really help with our 2 year old. I'm getting overwhelmed and irritated because it seems like he has energy to do anything else but spend time with his daughter or help me with house work. We have had fights which is pretty much me freaking out and him thinking I'm just emotional from being pregnant. I'm tierd I have symptoms of pre-e and I'm trying not to stress. I just don't know how else to tell him I need help. My doctor says I should be resting as much as possible but it's almost like he doesn't believe me when I tell him.