Now the story: when I told a friend of mine I was pregnant she asked if I had any offers for someone to throw my baby shower. I said no. So it was said okay let's do it. 

That was in January. Talked abit here and there. Then March came around and I found out the sex of my baby. Went to go text her nothing til like a week later. Me being an organized prepared person and doesn't want to wait til the last minute to send out invites got a location and the invites ready like the guest list and who I need to send them to and who I can just track down and give them too or Facebook, ( I've sent her texts during This no reply, but one saying oh you come drive to my house that's an hour a way and we can talk. Tight on money right now can't) I ask her for her address like end of April and she says Dude we were supposed to meet up and talk about the baby shower..

As I told her I don't Have the gas to drive down there plus I have mainly everything I want to do. And the venue already set. She said oh I was going to have it at my place. (Again an hour away most of my family and friends live in town with me.  ) I said well I already booked it And it's my baby shower you didn't even ask me. Or even reply to me about stuff. You assume I'm gonna go along with it. 

So she replied Oh..ok. Sorry I couldn't be of help then 

I honestly didn't reply. I'm not gonna play this child game. Again it's my child's baby shower wanna help plan it fine help but don't plan it like it your child my dear. 

Idk what to do about her. I love her but this isn't the first time she's made the decision for things or tired to like my labor/ delivery time .