So update on my situation

The boyfriend who has been very cold a distant since we found out (we were trying), just told me, because I asked and was tired of the tension, that he felt extorted into having another baby with me? So now I'm even more lost and confused. In no way did I threaten him in anyway to have a baby? The closest to that was asking if he was ready yet? I don't know want to do. He says he thinks this baby is the biggest mistake we could make. I don't agree. I told him that and he took it as him not being allowed to have an opinion, he makes me out to be the bad guy, like I'm some evil witch that forced him to have a baby and tells him he can't have an opinion! I never told him or acted in a way that implied that, I just said I didn't agree.

I'm so lost and confused, some advice would be appreciated ladies.