Ladies if you have family your so blessed. My husband died 3 weeks ago and I'm 9 months pregnant living alone with two boys and my family tell me to be an adult and start doing street drugs to get over the pain. I'm spending tonight so sick on the bathroom floor and asked since yesterday afternoon if someone could take them so I can go to the hospital and no luck. My kids dads family are non existent. It hurts being so alone since the day he passed away and seeing the kids hurting is even worse then being so sick and swollen and having to do it all alone sucks. So if you have mother in laws and families and husband's make sure you treat them right cause some people have nobody at all and I wish we did..