first trimester screening + gender?

J
I have my first trimester screening tomorrow. I've seen everyone's posts about finding out gender - did you know beforehand that it was an option? Or did you ask at the appointment to find out? It wasn't mentioned to me at all by my midwife. I know I'll be having bloodwork done, as well as an ultrasound. Hubby and I would really like to know ASAP, but I'm not sure if it's just not an option at my obgyn or what since it wasn't mentioned. Share your stories and experiences please!