Is it time to give up?

Question

Hi all, I'm new to this app and love that you have the option to speak to other users about things I constantly search for on the net! 
I am approaching my mid 20's now, 24 to be exact, and have been having unprotected sex for roughly 2 years, still with no luck. Every month being a step closer to sadness.

While I was younger ages 17, 18 and 20 to be exact, I caught pregnant, twice on the pill, all to be terminations. At a young age and a unstable relationship the worst thing I felt like I could do was bring a child into the world. Aswell as the fact I was young and didn't know what I wanted from life.

Of course now im in a happy, great place, a wonderful career and a great partner. The cherry to the cake would be a baby.

Sadly we've had no hope, on Valentine's Day this year I sadly experienced a miscarriage confirmed by a trip to hospital after a random 'period like flow' followed by clots and horrendous stomach pains.

This month my period was 3 days late and I found myself feeling more excited than ever. Finally another chance? But sadly that was wrong as yesterday my period showed up.

Has anyone on here been through anything similar to me. I can't decide wether it's time to go the doctors to make sure everything is ok or wether I'm simply being punished for the fact I have already been blessed with carrying 3 children that I made the decision with, not to have.

Any advice or tips any one has would be amazing.  Starting to feel quite down and stressed about the whole thing now...

Answer

You're not being punished at all! After a year it's recommended you see a fertility specialist. Maybe there's something going on that you don't know? Either way..good luck hun. I had an abortion at 16 and another one the following year. I'm TTC now. Give it time.

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I have been there, got preg twice with the wrong person who said he wanted a baby (little did I know, his friends were bragging how good it felt not to pull out) and i was only 19 and again at 20...huge regret and took a while to forgive myself...i too felt as if i was being punished when my now husband and i started trying at age 25, i lost hope within the two years. But i started going to goodwills and finding fertility books and reading up on things and finally tried preseed, im now 14 weeks preg at 27 years old! So do not give up! Just read up and see if theres anything you may notice about yourself, as i realized after the 2nd pregnancy, i became dry down there (tmi, sorry!) so i tried preseed! I was also trying progesterone cream but around 7 weeks, my levels of progesterone seemed to high (going off what symptoms i was highly experiencing) and weaned myself off that very quickly. 
But just dont give up! Ive been there and through the break downs and oddly enough, it was a reading that gave me hope! She was wrong on her reading but it did give me hope!

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You made those choices back then because you felt that was the right thing to do. Don't think about that anymore, it's no use. You're not being punished now, I have a friend who had 8 abortions before actually keeping a baby. It's her choice and it's not up to me to judge her. She now has a beautiful daugther and expecting a boy. I've been ttc for more than 3 years now and had a MC in December, after my first IVF. It was heartbreaking and I thought I'd never get over it. But I did! And now I'm getting ready for another transfer. My advice is to go see a doctor as soon as possible. You're still very young, but you don't want to waste another few years until you find out what the problem is. It could be something simple that could be treated easily. And you'll finally have your rainbow baby! Stay strong and positive, hon! Baby dust to you! 🌟🌟🌟

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Dont give up! Everything will come to place in time(: 
Hope and praying for you. 
Hey you never know 2016 might be your year!(:

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