Feeling a little judged...

I have to have a c section at 37 weeks because of preeclampsia and baby is breech.  I'm feeling really bummed because the picture perfect natural birth I had in mind is not going to happen for me.  I did prenatal yoga, classes, etc and it's just not what's going to work.  I did everything I could to turn the baby too.  On top of that I see so many women on here saying to make sure you wait and try natural, it's better for the baby.  I love this baby and I just want her here safe.  I feel like some think an early c section is copping out or not caring about the baby.  I'm a ftm and definitely wanted a different birth story.  Can anyone else relate to this feeling??