I have been with my husband 4 years, 2 of it married. We both have a child from a previous relationship. We never get to see his son and he acts like he doesn't even care to try to see him. My husband and I get along but with my daughter and him its awkward. Her biological father isn't in the picture(2 years now) so I figured the two of them would bond over time. After 4 years together the two still have no bond, she is 5 with no other father figure yet still no bond. They don't play, hug, or even talk to another. I love him but I'm starting to feel bad that my daughter doesn't have a fatherly relationship. We have tried therapy and family nights and after a year of that still nothing. He even said if something happened to me he wouldn't take care of her, that she is just part of being with me. Am I being selfish? What should I do?