Baby shower yay or nay

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So we have been thinking about adopting. We still have to talk to a lawyer and get a home study and all that my question is do you have a baby shower before or after u get ur baby? Like for us we have absolutely nothing. And we can't even borrow from anyone bc literally everyone we know has a baby and pregnant with the second or third.Β