A few months ago I had a misscarage and I was heartbroken. It was a rollercoaster of emotions considering I didn't know I was pregnant until I had to go to the doctor for blood work the next day. That same week we were told the bank wanted more than we could offer for the house we were so hopeful of getting. Could it be possible that a misscarage could be bittersweet? Like yes you lost your first baby but now you won't have the expenses of a child while trying to find/save for a house. Or you lost your baby but you weren't as prepared as you thought you were so now you can prepare yourself even better. I don't know.